Two in five married couples experience computer-related relationship problems.
Next time you’re out, notice how many people are ignoring the people they’re with because they’re glued to their screens.
A growing complaint among spouses is that their partner spends too much time on their smart device. Guess what? They're not wrong.
Think about the message you’re sending next time you’re with someone but choose to be fully present with your virtual world instead of them.
Why
do we choose to lose ourselves in worlds of pretend and superficial importance when life is happening all around us this very minute?
Addicted to Technology?
Many people are addicted to technology. You might be too if:
- Your spouse has mentioned you spend too much time
on the computer.
- You come home from work and head straight for your computer/smart device.
- You prefer time on your devices to time with others.
- You’re untruthful about how much time you spend surfing, gaming or on social
media.
Don’t Let Technology Ruin Your Marriage
You don’t have to get rid of technology for a happy marriage. Consider these suggestions:
1. Schedule technology-free nights to just enjoy each other.
2. Keep your gadgets out of the bedroom to avoid sleeping on the couch.
3. Use your notification settings wisely.
Seriously, why allow yourself to be enslaved by marketers and businesses that only care to claim your mind and separate you from your money? Make
notifications and technology serve YOU -demand that it respects and supports your lifestyle.
4. Enjoy the moment now and it share it later.
Because of technology, people feel the urgent need to share their life experiences in real time. I get it. And certain things are worth sharing in the moment...but how many moments are you missing because you're
distracted?
There's much more to say but that's enough for today.
Consider these simple tips about technology so you can begin a enjoying a happier relationship with your spouse and friends.
Until next time,
this is Mike Tucker and the Mad About Marriage Crew and we want YOU to be mad about marriage!
