If we complimented our spouses more and criticized less we'd have happier marriages and fewer divorces.
But for some reason, it seems we give fewer compliments as time passes.
So use these ideas to make your spouse feel more appreciated and special:
Complimenting in
Public
Go public with your admiration. Say nice things about your partner in front of your friends and family.
When the moment is right and it seems natural, mention something about them that you appreciate.
You could say something like, “My wife is the most patient person I know; her patience is a source of strength for me.” Or, “My husband makes me laugh.
I love how he always sees the brighter side of life.”
Don’t use my words, obviously. But you get the idea. When it can be tastefully done, compliment your spouse in public - it'll make them feel like a million dollars.
Specific Compliments
Generic compliments like “you look so nice” can be lame.
Be specific and genuine in your compliment. Saying “Wow, that blue dress really brings out your pretty blue eyes” is much better than the vague “you look nice.”
Men like compliments, too, by the way, on their clothes, looks and work.
Don’t just say, “Good job” after he’s worked around the house. Compliment the results. Show appreciation
for him doing the job so well.
Thinking of you
Sometimes words aren’t enough, so go the extra mile and give a gift or do something special to make it more memorable or to reward them for going the extra mile.
Beyond the Physical
Remember to not only compliment your partner’s physical appearance but also their character traits and
qualities. Seeing beyond your spouse’s physical traits breeds emotional connection and intimacy.
A healthy relationship
For a healthier, nicer and more pleasant relationship, begin complimenting your partner more often.
It will boost their self-esteem and confidence, and strengthen your friendship.
Let them know that you still find them attractive - that you desire them.
Let them know that you still love, respect and cherish them.
Let them know that you actually like them.
They know that you love them…but sometimes they wonder as the years pass if you still like them.
Use compliments to let your partner know that you love them and are very happy that they are in your life.
Until next time, this is Mike Tucker and the Crew and we want YOU to be mad about marriage!
