How nice are you to your spouse?
Do you
give:
encouragement
compliments
credit where credit is due
praise?
Just how nice are you?
Sometimes all our partner wants is to be acknowledged and feel
appreciated.
Do you ever find yourself wishing that your spouse was
as warm and
supportive to you as they are to others?
A marriage scums-over when it lacks warmth and kindness
and
it becomes a downright stinky place to be.
Who wants that?!?
It becomes a breeding ground for temptation, too because if someone
comes along who makes you feel special, well, certain ideas
can pop into your head.
Loving words infuse a marriage with life and warmth.
Is your
marriage in trouble?
Are you drifting apart?
Are you unhappily married?
If so, try this asap to turn things around:
Start giving credit where credit is due
Shower your spouse with sincere praise
Spice up your relationship with compliments
Open your eyes to see the many ways your spouse is trying to
please you – and then show your appreciation.
You didn’t think your wife was running all those miles
on
the treadmill just for her health, did you? She wants you to
have a fit and healthy wife, too!
You didn’t think your husband was working all those long
hours just to impress the boss, did you? He wants to give
you a comfortable lifestyle and be a good
provider.
So give this a try: Acknowledge whatever it is that your partner
is doing and say, “I’m proud of you.”
Example, to your husband, “You’re so disciplined and work so
hard to provide for our family. I’m really proud of you.”
Or to your wife, “Honey, you’re so generous with your time
to make sure we’re all taken care and have what we need
and yet you still find time for a healthy lifestyle. I don’t know
how you do it. I’m so proud of you.”
Those words
make a person feel like a million dollars AND it
lets them know they are important to you.
Something so simple has the power to ignite a transformation
in your relationship.
Until next time this is Mike & the Team and we want YOU
to be mad about marriage!
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