It’s a big problem we don’t talk about often but we need to because
so many couples suffer in silence alone because they don't know
what to do.
We're talking about alcohol and drug
addictions.
Gayle and I know this isn't an issue for many of our weekly readers
but it is for some. And chances are you know of someone who is
struggling with this very issue.
Addictions are dangerous and can stress a marriage severely.
Keep in mind that the addict can be a spouse OR someone
else within the family like a child.
If you're the one struggling with addiction, decide today to get
the help
you need before things get worse. You might start
by seeing what local resources exist in your area.
We heard the tragic story recently of a couple battling a Meth
addiction.
Bills went unpaid as they burned through their
cash for drugs;
their utilities were shut off.
Their addiction was so strong that they ignored their kids to
the point of family members having to take custody of the
children.
Despite having the opportunity to avail themselves of help, they
looked the other way until finally the police became involved,
which led to imprisonment.
Things don't have to end that way.
There are so
many organizations, like Alcoholics Anonymous,
that are standing by ready to help.
If it’s a family member that is dealing with addiction, you might
consider looking into Al-anon because it’s dedicated to supporting
family members who have loved ones suffering with addictions.
One of the benefits of Al-anon is the information and marriage
support it provides. It's a great source of ongoing hope and courage.
Another option might be to connect with the leader of your
faith community.
Addictions can tear a marriage apart. So you’ll need to be extra
committed to your relationship along the road to recovery.
Decide to do whatever it takes to keep your marriage together during
this challenging time.
It’ll require more patience than you imagined you ever had.
For people who are open to spiritual intervention, seek divine strength
through prayer as this will fill your soul with peace as you rely on God's
power to see you through.
Don’t let addiction make your marriage another casualty that leads to
separation and divorce or imprisonment.
Alcohol and drug addictions don’t have to ruin your marriage or rip
your family apart.
Just knowing help is available can ease mental and emotional stress.
Recovering from addiction isn’t easy but you, or the person you
know who is in this situation, can do it.
Just keep reminding yourself that it will get better. And sometime
soon you will break-free and emerge on the other side.
Until next time, this is Mike & Gayle Tucker and we want YOU
to be mad about marriage!
