Many couples fail to understand that every healthy relationship

has three dimensions: Yours, Mine and ours. 

**** Being together constantly is unhealthy ****

Not granting each other privacy is unhealthy, too. 

Additionally, certain things should be yours and other things 

should belong to your spouse.

Of course you should do everything possible to make sure you

and your spouse have ample time together, and you should 

always, always be generous with each other - never be 

greedy or sellfish.

BUT, make sure each of you has time for personal pursuits, 

otherwise you will suffocate your relationship.

So give each other some space - some breathing room. Each

of you needs time to connect with yourself, to recharge and

to refill your resevoir of patience, love and understanding. 

Giving each other some space is one of the best things you 

can do to enjoy a healthy & happy marriage. 

Until next week, this is Mike & Gayle Tucker and we

want you to be mad about marriage!