Dear , Want to be happier in your marriage? Then takethis
relationship tip to heart: Don't Fight Fair.If you want to weaken your relationship, all youhave to do is fight fair.Fighting fair is when you treat your spouse howthey treat you.If they give you the cold shoulder, you givethem the cold shoulder.If they clam up, you clam up.If they dredge up the past, you dredge up the past.If they hurt you then you hurt them.Here's an idea......if your spouse hurts you, then instead ofhurting them back, forgive them....if your spouse raises their voice at you,answer softly in return....if your spouse is unkind, be kind and
caring in return.By not playing fair you change the dynamicof your relationship and pave the way for
positive change; you create a new environment
by raising your standards.
The Bible calls this the Golden Rule - treatothers how you want to be treated.In the coming days, take some time toreflect on your marriage. If you've been hurt by your spouse, why not do something that warms their heart? Whenyou interact with them, use loving languageand caring actions - and see what happens.Until next week, this is Mike & Gayle Tucker and we want you to be mad about marriage!========================================You're
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