Can you guess what is the #1 predictor
of divorce?Negative communication patterns. Think about that for a second.What percentage of the communication
between
you and your spouse falls into
the negative category?Here's something scary: We pass along
our communication patterns to our children -
when they get married, they will model us!*** Researchers have learned that eliminating ONE negative communication pattern does more to insure the stability & happiness of your marriage than
adding 5 positive elements! So, here's a marriage tip to get you started this week:1) Let your spouse know you appreciate the little thingsthey do. Don't withhold praise just because they did somethingthey were "supposed" to do it. Say "thanks!" Catch
them doing something good and affirm them!
Withholding appreciation and praise is a negativecommunication pattern.
So get rid of it this week! It's easy to do!! Until next week, this is Mike and Gayle Tuckerand we want you to be mad about marriage.
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