How much do you think your spouse really cares
about your needs?
Answer this question to really know:
How well are they meeting your needs?
And while we're on the topic, how much do you
care about their needs?
It's not easy to care for someone's needs when you're
not even sure what they are.
A husband's number one need is for ego support.
Guess the best way for destroying this need? Nagging.
One of the best ways for a wife to meet her husband's need
for ego support is to shower him with respect and
appreciation; acknowledge him & his hard work.
One of the top needs that a wife has is the need for
love that is expressed through security and stability.
Guess the best way for destroying this need? Withdrawing.
One of the best ways for a husband to meet his wife's
need for stability is to work hard to provide for the
family; making sound decisions consistently helps, too.
In this day and age of dual income families when both
spouses work, some women might question if this is an
actual need many women still have, but I can assure you
from what we hear in our travels across the country, this
still matters very deeply to wives.
Your spouse has needs that they are looking to you and you
alone to meet. When was the last time you did something that
let them know that you really care about what is important
to them?
Until next week, this is Mike & Gayle Tucker, and we want
you to be madly in love!