Mike Tucker: This is For You

Published: Fri, 10/12/12

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Hi ,
 
This is for you - you need to hear this:
 
There are no perfect relationships.
 
It's something we all know but need
reminding of from time to time.
 
One bad day does not = a bad marriage.
 
Not every day is great, not every word or
deed is perfect.
 
You want to know what really matters?
 
The trend of the relationship.
 
Which way is your marriage trending?
 
I'm willing to bet that there are far more
high points than low points.

So here's what you need to do:

Develop a short memory for the things in
your marriage that cause / have caused
you pain, and a "long" memory for the
things that fill your heart with joy.
 
And lastly, if your marriage is trending in a
direction that stops and gives you pause,
then you and your spouse need to make
time for each other to discuss the situation
and get things back on track again.
 
That's it for this week. 
 
Until next time, this is Mike & Gayle
Tucker, and we're mad about marriage!
 
PS - Ever tempted to share your marriage
problems with your friends? Do NOT do it
unless they pass the three tests that I gave
over at the blog today. 
 
Click here to read it:
 
3 Tests Your Friends Must Pass Before You Share Your Marriage Problems With Them